Women: our role in our men's lives

As women we are faced with difficult tasks when it comes  to the men in our lives. We are support systems, chefs, night nurses, confidant, housewives etc. Lately I've been hearing women say things that have gotten me thinking. So I need your feedback. As a woman what is your purpose in life? Are we placed on this Earth to MAKE men happy?  Is it our life's mission to GET a man, and HOLD him? Should we dress up cause we want to look good FOR our man? Ladies tell me what you really think. Is this what we are really worth? Why should our entire lives be centered around men. I personally hate to hear women say these things and some women say it as if its an accolade. I believe that when I dress up and do my hair and wear make-up its to make me happy and to make me feel good. I believe that women should be secure in themselves, hold themselves in high esteem. If you want to lose some weight don't go at it to impress some guy, do it because you want to boost your esteem and you want to get healthy. Do it for you. Gents what do you think? Is the woman whose aim in life is to get a man more attractive to you than the woman who is secure and is waiting for the right man who can maintain her happiness?
I do not believe that if a woman doesn't get married or have children, she's any less than a woman. that's not our purpose in life. We have no skill to prove.

Let me know what you think.
p.s this is my first blog  not sure if I'm doing it right. Feel free to share your views, I am willing to learn.